I have been criticized for my rigid stance on purity. When I wrote What’s so Magic About Mike? those who disagreed with my position believed that I was writing from a place of judgment and condemnation. The truth is, my desire to see the church living in purity has nothing to do with judging and everything to do with wanting to see freedom for the people of God. Still, many may wonder who I am to be challenging the church to such a standard.
I am the wife of a recovering pornography addict.
I am writing to the woman who feels ugly, rejected and worthless. The one who has come to hate what she sees when she looks in the mirror because she will never be able to measure up to the images in her husband’s mind.
To the young man or woman who is trapped by sexual addiction and feels powerless, ashamed and hopeless: I write for you.
I know the destructive power of sexual addiction. However, I also know that the power of my God far exceeds anything you are trapped by today. As someone who was once bound and is now free, please believe me when I say that if you do not give up the fight, you will emerge victorious.
I was a single mother at the age of eighteen.
Young woman who is contemplating abortion, I write for you. I know the fear in your heart but even in this, God has not forsaken you. If you seek Him, He will be found by you. Your life is not over. There is still hope and a future for you. It is not too late for you to become everything you were born to be and it starts with making the right choice now.
I struggled with issues of purity from the ages of seven to twenty-three.
At a very young age, my innocence was lost. I was never abused as a child, but I carried an overwhelming sense of worthlessness and impurity. Over time, it became so much a part of who I was that I could not break free.
To the one who has had your innocence stolen, I am writing for you. God can restore all things, even purity. In His eyes, you are not worthless or beyond redemption. If you will call on the name of Jesus, He will cover you with His purity and restore to you what has been lost.
I am now free from sexual sin, addiction and bondage.
Freedom did not come quickly or without cost, but today my husband and I are both walking in purity and wholeness.
To anyone who has quit believing that you will ever be able to overcome this struggle, I will always write for you. Freedom is a promise for the children of God and I will continue to write it, preach it and pray for it until I see it. Today, if you are trapped and struggling, please feel free to email me. I would love to pray for you.
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